Under the Covers with Eve - Episode 1: Sexiness

13:09 Under the Covers with Eve episode 1 / 34 Sep 13, 2015 16 comments 7814 1528

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The first in a new series found only here, my sub /r/evesgarden and my Youtube channel, and Spotify

Come get cozy with me while I discuss a different topic with you each week, all just my thoughts and ideas. I'll try to keep it to areas surrounding sex, love, relationships, but I can't promise!

This first episode features, for example:

  • Game of Thrones
  • Playboy models
  • "cues" for attractiveness
  • what makes you sexy

music courtesy afrodrumming

Other audios in Under the Covers with Eve


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  • StarBoy on 2016-10-18 21:13:28 (UTC)

    I am so glad I have found your wonderful art piece of a website, I plan on listening to every one of your episodes. One before bed for the next 33 nights I suppose :)

    • A Eve on 2016-10-19 14:32:48 (UTC)

      haha that's ambitious - I hope you enjoy them :D

  • Fysh on 2016-05-24 10:34:38 (UTC) (edited)

    Returning here from the Rape fantasy discussion and the desire to be desired. It occurred to me that being truly desired by someone makes that person more attractive to you. I don't just mean the desire that someone wants to fuck you, but the desire that given a world full of people, they want you and only you.

    I have often heard the advice given to lovestruck individuals to let the other person know how they feel. Sometimes that other person will be completely unaware. I can think of one example from my own life where it was only several years after that I realised a particular person may have had a crush on me. It was just little remarks that didn't make any sense at the time. I actually liked this individual, and towards the end of the time that I knew her, I had actually separated from my first long-term partner, so we were both available, but I didn't feel that she would have any interest in me.

    • A Eve on 2016-05-25 10:06:03 (UTC)

      I did a whole UTC on how a lot of men in particular are really clueless as to whether someone likes them. It can happen to women too, definitely. :D

  • Fysh on 2016-05-20 12:20:09 (UTC)

    Physical looks are definitely not the only factor in attraction, however, all else being equal, people do tend to pair up based on physical looks :-( Luckily everyone has something to offer, and from my own experience I can truly say that there is always hope!

    Regarding Peter Dinklage as Tyrion Lanister, his character in the show is designed to be likeable. It is interesting to wonder if you would find him so attractive if he played someone mean or stupid?

    Speaking of the Game of Thrones, take Iwan Rheon as Ramsey Bolton; I doubt anyone at all would find him attractive in that role. However, the same actor as Simon Bellamy in the Misfits has an attractive vulnerability. The same physical looks, but perhaps examples of how Personality sometimes trumps Looks?

    • A Eve on 2016-05-21 23:09:06 (UTC)

      Very good points, I totally agree that it's the personality that shines through and makes the physical looks secondary. I've found myself disliking actors I once liked and thought were sexy if they start taking on roles with character traits I don't like. I think it's something that happens in real life all the time.

  • MrBonds on 2016-04-14 19:19:19 (UTC)

    Eve, I just started listening to this series and I really appreciate your commentary. You make some really good points. Of course, it is lovely just hearing your voice. You are a wise and beautiful woman in many ways. <3

    • A Eve on 2016-04-14 20:00:19 (UTC)

      Aw, thank you very much 💋

  • MadWithLust on 2015-09-22 01:15:20 (UTC)

    I like the raw (unedited?) rambly goodness of this series! Did you actually record it in bed, under the covers?

    You've got a very good point with the attractive vs. sexy. Attractive/Not-Attractive (to me) women can do sexy/non-sexy (to me) actions.

    I do think you're in the minority with your open-mindedness on sexiness, though. Beefcake has been pretty well represented in terms of male beauty through the ages, but George Costanza...not so revered. But your warm, welcoming words...I think that's what makes your audios so sexy! :P

    • A Eve on 2015-09-29 12:10:58 (UTC)

      haha yes, sometimes I do. It just depends. And every man, even George, has his own sexiness. I hope to help every man find his :D

  • cuddle_with_me on 2015-09-18 20:39:43 (UTC)

    The things you bring up here are so important. For some reason I have a habit of sometimes comparing myself to people who are more of the beefcaked persuasion, but if I wanted to find out the sexiest or most attractive woman I wouldn't just order everyone descending by cup size or butt size. It's about so many things, and of course that's how it is for men too. I definitely agree with you about seeing Peter as the most manly of the men on that show, as little of it as I've seen flickering past.

    (Spoiler: Eve is the sexiest and most attractive woman, at least if you ask me.)

    • A Eve on 2015-09-18 22:11:36 (UTC)

      aww, thank you darlin! ❤

  • 20DollarEarBuds on 2015-09-15 03:57:20 (UTC)

    Really liked this. I'm huge into podcasts and this is the most relaxing podcast type thing I've listened to in a long time. It's rambling but it stays coherent to the topic you set out for yourself. Keep it up!

    • A Eve on 2015-09-18 22:11:17 (UTC)

      Thanks, I will. I'm glad you enjoyed it, I liked making it!

    • A Eve on 2015-09-18 22:10:59 (UTC)

      Aww, thank you!

  • Arcturus on 2015-09-13 21:19:26 (UTC)

    I like this new series :-)