Eve's Guide For Regular Guys: Episode 1 - You're Worth It

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This is the first episode of a new series for Regular Guys - all about how to present your best self, how to attract women, how to find your passion and most of all, feel centered and comfortable in your own skin. This is for all guys - all shapes and sizes, ages, colours, creeds - all walks of life. This is for the average, wonderful, decent guy who wants to live a rewarding life and find love.

It's not about how to mix a martini or wear cufflinks. This is a no-cufflinks zone :P And it's not a pick-up-women guide either. This is going to be a thoughtful series about playing to your strengths and being true to yourself.

Future topics will range from areas like dressing and style, improving social skills, meeting women in authentic ways, sex tips, health advice, websites/apps/books I think you'd like, and a variety of other subjects to help you invest in yourself. I will invite other women to participate as guests too, to give you a wider perspective on the female eye.

I hope you enjoy this series - please let me know your thoughts and suggestions for future episodes.

Music by Bensound.com


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  • joetinla1967 on 2017-01-17 18:38:36 (UTC) (edited)

  • ChocPanda on 2017-01-12 09:40:14 (UTC)

    I would just like to apologise I was hesitant to listen to this, the start of an amazing series because I assumed it would make me feel "less than" as you put it and it did but in a way that encourages me to improve myself. You really hit the nail on the head in terms of understanding my situation but very much made it clear that through this series you are trying to take on a role that would provide the means to take a person who sees themself as fragmented and give them the means to nuture these fragments for lack of a better term and turn them into a whole, a more clearly defined and well kept individual not just physically but mentally and spiritually as well...in parts it reduced me to tears to be completely honest..I can't help but be excited for the next installment. Thank you very much for this brilliant idea Miss Eve it's everything I've ever wanted someone to say to me but never got the chance to hear...until now.

    • A Eve on 2017-01-13 21:21:31 (UTC)

      Aw, you're welcome. I hope you enjoy the rest of the series. ❤️

  • BTonyH587 on 2017-01-10 03:07:41 (UTC)

    Your not really British?
    /I came to this site after listening to "A Fuck for the Road"./

    • A Eve on 2017-01-10 14:20:26 (UTC)

      haha no, sorry

  • Durgarnkuld on 2017-01-08 20:32:31 (UTC)

    Very good pilot. I'm in all the way for sure.

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:11:06 (UTC)

      Thank you, I'm very glad you liked it ❤️

  • MadWithLust on 2017-01-08 17:26:03 (UTC)

    Thank you so much for this!!! It's amazing how you got to the heart of the matter so succinctly! You cut through all the BS so amazingly and avoided all that superficial stuff that everyone else goes to (be yourself, dress stylish, confidence blah blah). I had such a hard time trying to go through that one statement. It's so easy to blame not being good-looking enough, not rich enough, not being smooth enough, etc.

    And thank you especially for making this a cufflink-free zone! :P

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:11:58 (UTC)

      haha you're very welcome 💋

  • joetinla1967 on 2017-01-08 13:32:03 (UTC)

    Good morning Miss Eve,
    I'm really looking forward to this series, as a man who has put everybody in my life's happiness first and lost sight of my own for a while I think it's time to change this up a bit and I will say this, in the past six months or so since I found your amazing site I've been looking at things in a different light, I'm feeling the sun on my face, I look up at the night sky and notice the stars, I'm seeing the beauty in my surroundings that I lost sight of, for a while there I thought that I would not be able to see and feel these things again so just know that I will always be greatfull to you and everything your doing to uplift, support and encourage us men, you are an amazing woman.
    Thank you so much.

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:13:23 (UTC)

      Aww, thank you - and you're welcome. I'm so happy to hear that - yes, it's definitely time to take care of yourself. ❤️

  • ShyPhil on 2017-01-08 03:09:49 (UTC)

    OMG !!! EVE this is what i've been looking for. its like you wrote this just for me, i am that guy wow great post, i look forward too more of these !! your right ,, 2017 is off to a good start, hope it stays this way.
    thanks love !!

    Phil

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:13:49 (UTC)

      You're very welcome, I glad you liked it 💋

  • Hypnotique on 2017-01-07 20:11:04 (UTC)

    Thank you Eve.

    It's so nice that you take the time to think about the regular guy.

    I'm looking forward to listening to the entire series.

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:14:23 (UTC)

      Thank you, I am too, this should be fun 💋

  • Jandrusel on 2017-01-07 17:37:29 (UTC) (edited)

    Really digged this episode, Eve. It's the best lesson you can give us and, at the same time, It's the hardest to understand and accept. Sometimes, worthlessness and hopelessness strike with full force (and I'm guilty of it) but it gets better and easier with time. Loving yourself is not easy, but It's the only way...

    Thank you for being you. The fact that you took the time to do this podcast speaks volumes about your appreciation for the common man. Whatever happens, Eve is always there to give us hope, love and a friendly voice to cuddle with. Hopefully, this guide will help many guys who feel bad or worthless, and inspire them to break their cocoons and become their best selves.

    PD: I have a six-pack, but I'm gonna keep listening because it still applies to me :P

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:15:39 (UTC)

      haha okay, I didn't say this was a six-pack-free zone :D

      I hope it does help anyone who feels bad, I've been there myself and I know how it can feel. ❤️

  • billymacorbuddy on 2017-01-07 01:33:12 (UTC)

    *puts his Superman cuff links away* Sigh.

    Thanks for working on this series, Eve. In my short time here in The Garden I've come to appreciate your frank nature in discussions like this. You manage to stay both honest and uplifting at the same time. Sometimes you just need to hear things, and I like that you just say them. I recently had the chance to listen to your UTC on shyness and it gave me a lot to think about. I was sorry to read that it received such a backlash. Just know that there are men out there who appreciate you trying to help.

    Now, about this series. I'd be interested in your take, or anyone's for that matter, on meeting new people. I've found that once I graduated from college and started my career, my opportunities to meet new people dwindled down to nothing. Now it has been so long that I don't where to begin again. Of course that's something I need to solve, but I'd welcome your thoughts on the matter.

    And, lol at the app to help me navigate my woman's menstrual cycle. How heavy of a flow do they think she has???

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:17:10 (UTC)

      haha that's a good point :D

      A lot of people commented on that app, how it was a bit dodgy to assume that your woman's mood needs to be handled via an app, and that if she's upset it must be hormonal :D

  • NowhereMan on 2017-01-07 01:10:16 (UTC)

    I've been waiting for the start of this series since you first mentioned that you wanted to do this, and the wait was well worth it. Only one episode in, and it's already one of the most insightful things I've listened to in a long time.

    I've fallen into that trap of thinking very low about myself. In fact, I've even viewed myself almost as if I was some kind of monster who not only had no chance of finding love and happiness, but almost as if I deserved it, especially with all of the rejection I've had to deal with throughout my life.

    Thank you Eve. This is exactly the kind of thing I need to wake me up from this self-enduced nightmare I've created about myself.

    • A Eve on 2017-01-09 21:19:38 (UTC)

      Aww, well I'm not happy to hear you've been so down, but I'm glad this gives you somewhere to go with it. ❤️