Ask Eve - The Cumming Episode

21:19 Ask Eve Apr 27, 2015 18 comments 13182 1405

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My third episode of answering listener questions, this time all about cumming!

I realize that I had just spent some time around Irish people and so my Irish accent slips into this audio from time to time, as does my propensity to talk a little fast. Maybe I just love the subject matter!

For reference, here are the links I mention in the audio

Kegel Exercises

Premature Ejaculation

For those with a science background, here's a study from the Indian Journal of Urology on premature ejaculation

Supplements/
amino acids - L-arginine and L-lysine
Horny Goat Weed

The next Ask Eve will be on visual porn - so please ask questions or make comments!


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  • Ltb on 2016-09-11 08:55:36 (UTC)

    What are your thoughts on kissing after oral sex for both male and female cum?

    • A Eve on 2016-09-11 12:49:37 (UTC)

      Well I guess it depends on how each of you feel about it. For some guys, they don't like the idea of tasting their own cum, so they don't want to kiss a girl who has swallowed them. And vice versa, some girls are embarrassed by their taste/smell so they don't want to taste themselves on their man. I would say it's up to the couple to figure this out ahead of time, and hopefully come to an agreement that doesn't make the other feel bad about it.

  • Lux on 2016-07-01 03:10:29 (UTC)

    Funny story, in high school, we got my friend some horny goat weed tea as a gag gift, just because of it's funny name. We didn't really know what it was supposed to do, and the box was really vague. Naturally we all had some, ya know, for science. It smelled and tasted like grass.
    Oh and I did detect bits of an Irish accent and it was pretty cute.

    • A Eve on 2016-07-01 14:01:53 (UTC)

      haha, thank you!

      Yes, I can imagine millions of people trying something called Horny Goat Weed Tea because how can you not? :P

  • STEVE4EVE on 2016-02-20 16:16:42 (UTC)

    Eve, to hear your delightful voice delighfully discussing these important things is a most uplifting experience:)

    I must say that I've learned more from women like yourself about my own intimate workings than I've ever learned from any man. Thank you.

    I knew about the effect of pineapple on the taste of cum, but it's news to me how it can also be changed by blueberries, meat, fish and all those other things you mentioned. Maybe we should invent some symbols that indicate the effect of a food on the taste of cum, and restaurants could put the corresponding symbol next to each item on their menus. Then, of course, any gentleman would ask the lady he is with to choose what he eats... what she will be tasting, later :)

    • A Eve on 2016-02-20 20:56:12 (UTC)

      haha I love that idea...

      "No, Gaston, the lady will be having the pineapple juice with dinner....trust me..."

  • cubastank on 2015-05-04 02:50:42 (UTC)

    I have a question regarding the next episode: Is it possible to determine the difference between pornography and eroticism or is it all subjective? I mean, I know what's considered porn but I'm wondering if there's a fine line between the two.

    • A Eve on 2015-05-04 18:20:52 (UTC)

      Oh great question - thanks! I'll definitely address this.

  • MadWithLust on 2015-04-28 01:15:14 (UTC)

    I was a little disappointed I couldn't pick up on the Irish accent. I think I might be expecting a little too much, like a commercial (advert?) for Lucky Charms.

    I think what I enjoy about this is just hearing how casual and happy you are talking about sex and cumming and even medical facts.

    And I find it incredibly cute that you can't stand the word "sphincter." Do you like the Egyptian Lion-Man? :P

    • A Eve on 2015-04-28 18:17:05 (UTC)

      haha, oh the accent is there, at least to my ears! Don't go by Lucky Charms, though, even if they are magically delicious!

      Oh yes, Sphinx is fine! LOL

      • MadWithLust on 2015-04-29 01:18:22 (UTC)

        You're magically delicious! Yuh-huh! ;)

        • A Eve on 2015-04-29 09:07:02 (UTC)

          I shamrock your world? :P

          • MadWithLust on 2015-04-29 10:22:03 (UTC)

            Oh, yes! Sometimes, I wonder what's the point of wearing socks because you're just going to shamrock my socks off! Over and over and over again! :P

  • DvSDragon on 2015-04-27 22:55:46 (UTC) (edited)

    Just another beautifully informative and entertaining episode Eve.
    Thank you so much. :3
    I was wondering though, what is the longer answer to the edging question?
    Or rather i kind of feel that individually it can differ greatly whether a person can have harmful effect because of edging.. especially for prolonged periods of time..

    Maybe an episode on itself.. ?
    Considering any issues (if any), techniques, teasing and positive results of edging.. ;)

    • A Eve on 2015-04-28 18:17:50 (UTC)

      Thank you! I will look into longer term effects of edging in the medical literature if you want, that's probably the most accurate source of information.

      • DvSDragon on 2015-04-28 22:55:10 (UTC)

        Well i would appreciate it but only if you want to of course,
        Most sources can be quite vague and as i said earlier quite different depending on the person asked.

        One might have no problems at all and others might experience ..well not sure but something..? Personally i would think about the blood flow, muscle damage.. maybe even as far as saying heart problems..?
        I really don't know, i am just going out on limb here.. xD

  • cuddle_with_me on 2015-04-27 20:29:35 (UTC)

    What I love most about Ask Eve might be your explanations for why things are okay and not dirty or perverse. It's so easy for so many people to block this entire subject out as something that is biologically necessary but that shouldn't be enjoyed.

    You not only take the extreme opposite approach, you have clearly thought about this a great deal and can explain plainly that, if you just think about it, for example, why wouldn't she want things to feel great for you just as much as you'd want things to feel great for her? These are simple, basic questions that are so often part of what's being dismissed out of hand. To have someone like you explain it in no uncertain terms is very helpful to dissolve any remnants of the shaming that many people are still mired in, as you point out.

    • A Eve on 2015-04-27 22:21:50 (UTC)

      Thank you so much, I'm so glad that resonated with you. I really want to take the shame out of sex