Announcing Eden by Eve's Garden...links to sex-positive erotica and other performers

Sep 05, 2017 38 comments

Ever since I began Eraudica in 2015, one of my goals has been to present you with an alternative to typical porn and all its drawbacks - soulless sex, misogynistic depictions of women, and the tendency to encourage viewers to need more and more depravity and even disgust to find sexual pleasure. All my audios and scripts focus on positive sexuality that makes you feel good, both physically and mentally, and I’m delighted every time a listener writes to say they no longer watch porn because of the better experience they have with me.

Erotic audio is not everything, though, and I have long been aware that there is great potential for this kind of positive sexuality in other formats, if only one had the time and dedication to wade through all the crap. I always wanted to provide a central resource for the best erotic material out there, which is why I’m launching Eden by Eve’s Garden, a sister-site to Eraudica.

I’ve described Eden as "curated links to the best in erotic audio, video, photography and more" - and I mean it. This is not just another links site, I have gathered these resources carefully over time, making sure that each one meets my simple criteria: to be included in Eden, the site, performer or author has to be trustworthy, professional, ethical and positive. I won’t link to anything degrading, humiliating or any site that depicts sex negatively. This doesn't mean every site features only romantic love-making - I'm the first to agree that passionate, primal sex can be absolutely amazing, and the sites I link to often feature that kind of sex. I just avoid sites that expressly depict sex as a degrading, demeaning act, because I don't believe it is. If you do, you're on the wrong site.

I won’t link to the "Big Porn" sites, because anyone can find these sites if that’s what you’re looking for. The sites I link to are well-established and have been in business for many years, some for decades, whom you can join with confidence and without worry.

I’ve set up Eden much the same way I set up Eraudica - no annoying ads, popups, pop-unders, or any of the craziness you can see on many sites today - it’s a clean, simple site that I will continue to add to as I find more resources, but it will always remain a very honest, respectful place for you to explore other kinds of erotica. It will include links to:

  • erotic audio performers - links to other erotic audio performers, who also offer custom erotic audios.

  • video - links to the best visual porn, often called ’female friendly’ or ’couples friendly', but really just videos that focus more on passionate, beautiful or real couple sex.

  • photography - links to some wonderful sites that show the female body or couples’ sexuality as beautiful, sexy and sensual.

  • writing - links to sites for erotic fiction, and to fiction and non-fiction books I recommend.

  • fine art - links to fine artists who focus on beauty and sexuality.

  • health and well-being - links to information on men's health and sexuality

I’ve also included a section for becoming a paid affiliate of Eraudica, for anyone who wants to start promoting this site.

For full transparency, I have become an affiliate of many of these sites and have an Amazon reseller account linked to titles I recommend. I’m not affiliated with everything I promote, and I won’t promote something I don’t agree with, so you can trust that if it’s featured on Eden, it’s there because I sincerely recommend it.

So please check out Eden if you’re interested in finding out about other sex-positive forms of erotica, and feel free to suggest sites or performers using my contact page. This is a labour of love, and a work in progress, one that I hope will continue to grow into a valuable resource for sex-positive erotica. 💋


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  • Vermouth1991 on 2017-10-22 17:50:15 (UTC)

    joymii is indeed a great site for loving sex. It reminds me of X-Art as well.

    • A Eve on 2017-10-23 12:02:21 (UTC)

      Yes, I have joymii there already! Thanks V!

  • secretsanta on 2017-09-13 18:32:11 (UTC)

    Hi Eve, u r so kind & positive. I appreciate that.

    Do you know a site/service where I can talk/watch genuine girls & payment is safe & fair

    • A Eve on 2017-09-13 21:28:09 (UTC)

      Do you mean like cam girls? I don't have a listing of those kinds of performers yet, but if I come across any, or if people suggest some, I'll be happy to include them.

  • EarsAreReady on 2017-09-07 09:21:13 (UTC)

    Just wanted to say that I really appreciate your approach to sex, and even if there's some dicks harassing you because of it, there's also tons of people who really love that you provide so many great erotic audios that don't degrade the listener or the performer.

    Your HFO audios are my favorite for that exact reason, they are so immersive without giving the feeling that I'm hurting you or you're hurting me. The BJ and Doggy parts of your "Nothing as Sweet as an HFO" are the best audio I've ever listened to, your voice together with the sounds is just so wildly erotic.

    Anyway, I went on rambling a bit, just wanted to tell you that I really love your approach to audios and that I'll make sure to check out Eden.

    I'll check out Eden for sure,

    • A Eve on 2017-09-07 17:28:06 (UTC)

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! 💋

  • LTTP216 on 2017-09-07 02:59:09 (UTC)

    So...what's up?....feels like a little bit of tension in the building.

    • A Eve on 2017-09-07 17:28:31 (UTC)

      It's nothing, don't worry about it ❤️

    • joetinla1967 on 2017-09-07 11:56:48 (UTC)

      Hey Elvis, you have every right to your opinion and it looks like you said what you had to say so how about just moving on.

    • stormmuse on 2017-09-06 15:19:43 (UTC)

      I think she approaches it from the perspective that is most prevalent among doctors and studies, which is that porn quite often does affect how men and women see human sexuality. Does it affect everyone the same way? No, but research does show that it has a desensitizing effect in the brain, as prolonged use can work to re-wire neural pathways. You also contend with the desensitization to dopamine that accompanies orgasm, so that the mind is trained, requiring greater stimulus to get the same effect. This effect isn't permanent and can be reversed, but it still exists.

      Mainstream porn and the rougher stuff do tend to show sex and sexuality in an unrealistic light, where all women are just gagging for it and will perform in the most ridiculous of settings. We won't even go into the prevalence of cheating, rape and incest scenarios - which all depict behaviors that can and do cause extreme emotional/physical trauma.

      The general effect is to make sex impersonal, which flies in the reality that humans aren't simple animals. Every part of us is involved, even if we aren't directly tapping into it. The rougher side often lends to the thought that all women want to be treated that way. Are there women who do, yes, just as there are men who want to be humiliated...but they are likely the outliers. Do all men want to treat women that way, no...of course, there are some, and as long as they find consensual partners, so be it.

      I also believe there are varying degrees and that the primary factor would be the relationship. Hair-pulling and calling your woman your slut, etc in the heat of passion is lower on the scale, than grabbing her throat and choking her, which is still not to the extreme of hitting or hardcore BDSM. In a healthy relationship, these desires/kinks would be explored mutually. Is this to say that there aren't outliers who want impersonal degrading sex? Of course not, but I think you'd find that the majority of men and women, would be more willing to embrace their darker sides with someone they care about and feel safe and comfortable with, as just talking about those desires can be upsetting for some.

      • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:20:57 (UTC)

        From my experience with this site, the people most 'at risk' from extreme porn are the young, single men without partners. They don't have the mitigating factor of a partner and realistic sex to temper what they see day in and day out, their only experience with sex is what they watch. This absolutely affects the way they see sex and themselves, I can't count the number of people who have written to me absolutely distraught over their sexuality and hoping for some sanity.

        I am not against porn, not at all. I think consenting adults can and should enjoy what they want, and there is certainly enough content out there for everyone. I am focused on providing a different experience for people, who might not be comfortable with where they are, who might not have a loving relationship in which to safely explore kinks, etc.

              • billymacorbuddy on 2017-09-06 20:34:15 (UTC)

                Thanks for speaking up Geo. Love you man! 🤜🤛

                • Georgio36 on 2017-09-06 20:53:27 (UTC)

                  No problem bro! Somebody gotta do it. I'm not even thinking about him anymore. Let's move on & look forward to Eve's new audio 🌟

                • Georgio36 on 2017-09-06 20:48:09 (UTC) (edited)

                  Yet you don't know how to talk to people with common sense without using cussing words or insults towards them. For that, you get comment trophy for being a stupid idiot 🏆. Listen I don't know who the hell you are but you are only making yourself look bad here. By the way, Elvis would be ashamed to know that his name was attached to a online profile of such a classless piece of shit like you. I won't be further responding to your stupidity after this. Knowing you after being blocked, you'll just make another user name on here acting like a whiny bitch just like you are now. Only to find out you are only web traffic money dispensary. Have a nice day sir 😴

  • stormmuse on 2017-09-05 22:35:25 (UTC) (edited)

    Charlie, it doesn't just affect young men - I had dealt with mainstream porn when I was younger, then it reared its head as my marriage collapsed decades later.

    I've wandered out of that world, through finding Eve ( originally through GWA ), as well as some other lovely performers, who show sex in a positive light, as opposed to cheapening it, or mucking up both men and women in their view of sexuality. I like that they show that sex isn't dirty or shameful, even when it is crazy naughty and hot. Some categories on Literotica can display quite pleasant stories, which depict positive sex and loving realistic relationships.

    I only wish that someone like you had existed decades ago, alas the past is that past, and I am grateful to have found you and others like you now. Eve, thank you for all you do, milady!

    PS - Do you know how much I love you for including The Art of Manliness?

    • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:22:06 (UTC)

      haha I love the Art of Manliness, it's an awesome site. I love everything about it.

      Thank you for your support, Storm. ❤️

    • CharlieRomeoLima on 2017-09-06 03:05:23 (UTC)

      Storm, I'm sorry to hear about your marriage ending like that. I understand that porn affects older men too, because it was a source of tension in my parents' marriage while I was growing up. They never told me flat out until years later, but kids have a way of picking up on things that are wrong. I too discovered Eve on Literotica, and I found myself coming back to her audios many times over, for the reasons that we all know very well. Unfortunately it took me nearly a year to work up my courage and come out of lurking, but once I did I've never looked back. :)

      • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:22:28 (UTC)

        I'm glad you did, see, I'm not scary :P

  • CharlieRomeoLima on 2017-09-05 22:03:18 (UTC)

    Good to see Joymii and Beautiful Agony up on Eden. I came across their work unfortunately through stolen content posted on the big sites by thieves, but their celebration of the aesthetic beauty inherent in the female form in the case of the former and in the orgasms of regular people in the case of the latter stood out starkly from the exploitation and increasing depravity of their neighbouring links on Pornhub, Xhamster, etc., and made a real impression on me. Like countless young men I was mired in the mainstream and some distasteful niche stuff for years before I found your work, and I hope that Eden's web presence grows large enough that it will save countless others from enduring years of needless guilt, self-loathing, shame and emptiness arising from the act of self-love.

    I'm impressed by your effort, and excited to see this, and am looking forward to watching its growth in the coming months/years. If I encounter new content that embodies the spirit of Eden, I can let you know if you'd like. You're doing much good work here, Eve. 🏵

    • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:57:18 (UTC)

      Thank you so much Charlie! 💋

    • Georgio36 on 2017-09-06 07:13:14 (UTC)

      Hey Charlie I know all about the site Beautiful Agony & I could never forget it. It's on one of my few favorite types of porn to look at when I do look at something. I'm a big fan of the amateur stuff more especially that site cuz it focus on female pleasure. Such beautiful content they have & I found out about it from xhamster & pornhub by accident. So it's great to see that kind of erotica get noticed

      • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:24:18 (UTC)

        I love that site, I'm always looking for more. And I'm looking for more diverse porn and photography sites too, ones that feature amateurs and people of different races/abilties/ages, etc. There isn't a lot out there that isn't in some way demeaning - I think you probably know what I mean. Black men in particular are often depicted a certain way in mainstream porn, and I don't think it's particularly positive. But if you know of any sites that you'd like to see included, please let me know.

        • Georgio36 on 2017-09-06 19:06:07 (UTC) (edited)

          You are right here Eve. I don't like how Black Men are depicted in porn cuz not all of us are the same or would do the same thing when it comes to sex or love. I be watching some those videos & be so turned off because that's not hope I would be with a woman during sex as in calling her a slut & stuff. I do like the Rough sex just no name calling or feeling like I'mma hurt the person you know? If I find out anymore great amateur stuff, I'll let you know. Beautiful Agony & Your site is definitely my top favorite stuff right now 😊

          • A Eve on 2017-09-07 17:30:39 (UTC)

            Rough stuff is fine, and I'm not saying people can't enjoy a bit of name calling etc in a respectful relationship. It's just not my focus. And do please let me know if you find other sites I should include 💋

  • Babybae on 2017-09-05 20:26:27 (UTC)

    😬 nerves set in... What... do?...

    • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:24:34 (UTC)

      Nerves? About what, dear heart?

      • Babybae on 2017-09-06 22:03:21 (UTC)

        Originally I was nervous at how the content included was going to sky rocket, yet here I am still trying to catch up on 2+ years of already existing audio. That's also why I saluted and agreed with Charlie's suggestion to relax with Sweet Nothings. Although I just found the Walk with Me series and began recording my own similar content. Recording my own stuff felt great. New addiction?

        • A Eve on 2017-09-07 17:31:16 (UTC)

          That's awesome to hear you started recording yourself, are you thinking of posting it? I can give you some advice if you like.

    • CharlieRomeoLima on 2017-09-06 03:06:50 (UTC)

      Babybae, I highly recommend listening to a soothing Sweet Nothings!

      • Babybae on 2017-09-06 03:46:15 (UTC)

        Yup. o7

  • Georgio36 on 2017-09-05 20:05:27 (UTC)

    Whoa how thoughtful & graceful are you Eve to go through all that trouble of putting together alternative sources for us in sex positive forms of erotica. The website seems like a wonderful idea. I am familiar with some of the artists like Raven Fox Audio from Literotica. Her style & genre of audios actually lead me to you. I'm very interested in the fine art section of the website because I love art & drawing. I look forward to seeing the new work there.

    However for my sensual, emotional feeling good needs; I'm sticking with your audios & website here for that. You have a lot of what I need already. Still I like what you are doing & I'm proud of you 🌺

    • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:24:47 (UTC)

      Thank you Geo!

    • CharlieRomeoLima on 2017-09-05 22:27:47 (UTC)

      Yes, Eve's audios, photos, and video pretty much covers all the bases for me too when it comes to positive erotica, and I trust that any advice from third-parties that she endorses is golden, and won't lead me astray in life or love.

      • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:03:27 (UTC)

        Thank you Charlie, I got you! ❤️

  • billymacorbuddy on 2017-09-05 19:55:18 (UTC) (edited)

    Interesting. I look forward to seeing what might pop up. ;)

    Edit: Actually, that fineartamerica site may prove useful. My walls desperately need some art. And while hanging nudes in my house isn't really my style, there's plenty of other art there to chose from.

    • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:03:09 (UTC)

      Yes, I agree - I'm a big fan of classic nudes, like the Botticelli and others. There's one I love about Mars and Venus, and he looks completely wiped out :P

    • CharlieRomeoLima on 2017-09-06 03:15:08 (UTC)

      I like this art print "Everlasting" from A.D. Cook's site. I've always been oddly fascinated by the image of lovers' clasped and intertwined fingers on a bedsheet ever since I saw the motif feature prominently in Sarah and Kyle's love scene in the first Terminator film.

      • A Eve on 2017-09-06 16:02:22 (UTC)

        oh yes, I just loved that scene ❤️